Guys cheat, they have a problem committing etc.. we all are familiar with this case scenarios. And to be real, we’re expecting them more than expecting a descent relationship type.
But let’s assume that in the beginning he was really there, really going for the relationship as well.
What happened along the way?
Here are some top reasons why men give up on their relationships.
Afraid of commitment the absolute reason number 1.Guys tend to get afraid if you come too close in a very short period of time. It’s very sudden for them and also assertive. You just can’t keep on hoping with a guy who’s receiving a lot from you and afraid to open up and give back.
Social mediaHaving a social life and a social account is totally your thing. But if he sees that even after you started dating, you’re continuing with the hot posed selfies and enjoy the “drooling” comments of some random guys, he would definitely stop respecting you. He tends to be serious and all guys have a bigger level of jealousy, just are way too proud to confess.
Having different valuesOk, this is a mutual factor. Somewhere along the way, you both see that your hobbies, interests and lifestyles are just not matching. No one has to put up with something they’re not comfortable or enjoying, just to be with someone. It’s better to let it go earlier, than to put up with uncomfortable situations and resentments afterwards.
You are hurting himMaybe you’re not completely aware of doing this, but that’s just because won’t open up and say directly what bothers them and what action of yours hurt them. It might be lack of attention, not being there when he really needed you… they are tough, but very fragile creatures with feelings as well.
He lost interest in youIt is the toughest thing to hear, just when you warmed up and buckled up for a longer ride. But that happens and there’s never really a comforting way to pass this phase.
You’re “being a flake”Maybe you weren’t committing as well. Think about it. All those friends of yours and the time you never really took apart from being with them, to give credit and priority to him. Think about whether you really want a relationship or a guy to fill up your free time in the busy day schedule.
You were the one hiding himAvoiding going out in couples with your friends, avoiding introducing him to your family…yes, guys also mind this behavior and don’t want to be left on the side.Coming on too strong – you were being serious and direct from the start. Okay, that might be a good idea, to talk about future plans and open up the cards to see where it is all going. But a guy might just want the same, but is afraid of being pushed down the “family” and “babies” and “marriage” lane. Take it easy and cooperate.
You just can’t keep your phone away from youSocial media and games are really catchy, we know. But this gives signals that you’re bored spending time with him, and men really appreciate themselves and their time. Give more credit and maybe put your phone on silent, so you can have a more deep and intimate time together.
Do you have some recent experience different than what we’ve mentioned here and want to add to the story? Tell us in the comments below.Sources: https://guff.com/ poderoso.me/